“A Joke a Minute!” Thursday Stories with Baby Frederico!

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*Every Thursday we introduce you to another quick bedtime story about our family’s favorite resident reptile – Baby Frederico. His backstory can be found here.  Enjoy!

 

Baby Frederico loves his Momma Mia and Papá Frita, his buddy Grenelda the Grasshopper, blue crayons, popcorn and…writing mysteries.  Here is his story:

Sometimes Baby Frederico just needs a good joke or two (or four) to get him through the week, and this was one of those weeks!  So much testing at school and so many piano lesson practices that the best medicine for a tired brain is a little something to make a face smile and a voice laugh.  Here are his favorites for the week:

– What do you call a pig who does karate? A pork chop!

– Why was the man running around his bed? He wanted to catch up on his sleep!

– How did the barber win the race? He knew a short cut!

– What did zero say to eight? Nice belt!-

Try and Try Again

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One of the greatest joys of the holiday season that especially starts in November with our Thanksgiving celebration is that we get to spend some extra time with our nieces and nephews, as well as our daughters.  We come together for a number of meals and outings when they all visit during these last two months of the year, when school is out and the days are more relaxed and carefree.

Because this allows all of us the opportunity to be among children more, we are privileged to hear more about their perspectives and interests and funny ideas.  We celebrate their musical talents and read with them and play with toys and are sometimes even invited to follow them on their grand outdoor adventures.  Their perspectives on nearly everything are worth at least a moment of an adult’s time.

Perspective-taking is a wonderful tool for an adult as it helps us see the big picture or maybe just a clearer picture of where we are and what we are thinking and what needs to change…or just stay the same.  And I guess because perspective-taking has been on my mind, it is what I noticed most among the children in our family as they conversed with each other and us grown-ups throughout the final weeks of 2013.  Here are just a couple of examples:

One night, our nine-year old nephew Zachary remembers that when he was 7, his tae-kwon-do instructor would say, “Zachary, you can try by yourself or I can help you until you get it right, which would you like to do?”  Zachary said, “I would always choose to try it by myself and, one time, I actually did it on the first try!”

On another night, our oldest daughter Emily and her handful of piano students, all under the age of 8, were presenting their annual Christmas recital, a time that it surprisingly full of this “I think I can” spirit, this optimism.  These kids were so proud and so happy and so sure of their abilities.  Though not one of them is a prodigy at the piano, and all of them had their share of mistakes and pauses, but nothing, and I mean nothing, could deter their smiles nor their belief that they are pianists.  It was amazing.  There was one little girl who played nearly every note so slowly that you could barely tell what the melody was supposed to be, but when she finally finished she turned and smiled this picture-perfect smile and bowed as though she were winding down her first concert appearance at Carnegie Hall.

There is such optimism among these children, such a “can do” attitude. We see it all the time as they try and try again without a moment’s thought that failure is even possible. And even more interesting is that they haven’t yet learned that they might be failing.

Instead, they see failure in an entirely different light. They see failure as simply a way to find out what didn’t work. What a novel approach to life in general.

Try and try again. Who knows what you might even get right.