Father Knows Five 2-14-14

*Every Friday we serve you an “a la carte” style list of 5 unique videos, articles, ideas, etc. from all kinds of locations. (If you are viewing this blog through your email subscription, please follow the link to our website to view all videos.)  See you next week…

1.  Lemony Snicket interviews Kate DiCamillo – two of our favorites authors in one place at one time!  Their books are treasures.

2. Famous Books Recreated By Babies – the pic below is our favorite:


3.  Valentine Gifts for Booklovers! – incredibly wonderful ideas no matter what day of the year it is.


4.  Infographic: The Oxford comma debate – a cool and very brief history of the contentious little comma, and arguments for both sides of the fight.

5.  An Interview with Eve Bunting – to honor our family’s favorite Valentine children’s book, The Valentine Bears, which we reviewed on Tuesday.  There are so many Eve Bunting books in our secret book room!

‘Pat the Christmas Bunny’ – Look at this Book!

* Every Tuesday we introduce you to a favorite book from our secret book room, and give you a unique “recipe for fun” this week over on our Book Cook page.  To celebrate the holiday season, we will review a great Christmas book every Tuesday this month!

 Pat bunny

Today’s great book:  Pat the Christmas Bunny by Edith Kunhardt (1999, Golden Books)

Time to Read:  short and sweet, especially for a Christmas baby; great for naptime or anytime

Summary:  from the back of the book…”Pat the Bunny by Dorothy Kunhardt is recognized by leading educators as the most important first book for a baby’s early development.  Its unique interactive and sensory approach helps stimulate a baby’s developing mind.  In this companion to Dorthy Kunhardt’s Pat the Bunny, Paula and Judy are getting ready for Christmas.  Toddlers can join in the fun by helping them write a list for Santa, smell a candy cane, and even ride on a toboggan!  All nine activities will fascinate your little one.”

Best Quote:  “But we’re so excited that we can’t fall asleep.” (our favorite interactive page too!)

Our View:  For a while now, we’ve been wanting to include a book review for those with babies and so to celebrate our first ever month-long “Look at this Book!,” we have decided to begin the month with the kid’s first Christmas book favorite.  Pat the Christmas Bunny is that book.  Claire was 11-months old when she received this book from us to celebrate her first Christmas.  The interactive style and the simple words and pictures, along with the small format of the book, is just right for little hands.  The sensory aspects of this story make it a perfectly developmentally appropriate work for young ones and the short story is just right for tired parents.  The original Pat the Bunny was first published in 1940 and has now sold more than 7 million copies worldwide.  Random House includes a wonderful website dedicated to the history of the story and includes this comment:  “The history of pat the bunny has shaped its way into becoming one of the most recognized classic children’s books today. The success of the entire collection can be attributed to Dorothy and Edith Kunhardt, as they created these books with love and consideration to the joy and interaction that child and parent would get by reading these books together.”  You can visit the website at http://www.randomhouse.com/golden/patthebunny/story.html

Remember to visit our Book Cook page for the recipe – “Eat the Coconut Bunny” – created by the kids to accompany this particular book.

Reading for One

Greyson Moore 1

I am so glad we were invited to a family birthday party for Greyson Moore. He’s a little boy who just turned one year old. Full of energy and curiosity and happy with the kind of smile that makes you somehow feel better about life in general, we really enjoyed this party.

As his mom and dad set the many presents around him at the center of the living room floor, we all gathered to watch him enjoy this “toy extravaganza” rite of passage. What happened next though really surprised me.  His mother could barely get him to unwrap the gifts because he was so intrigued with each of the birthday cards!

What surprises me is that I was actually one of the adults who had suggested that buying a birthday card for a one-year old is surely nothing more than a Hallmark scheme.  I was wrong and I was intrigued to see this little boy so entranced with holding these cards in his hands just like he was holding a book, and acting as though he was reading them.

Here’s what I’m thinking – Greyson has a family who not only reads to him but reads to themselves.  He is watching and learning how to hold a book, how to look at a book, and eventually he will find that reading a book is as natural as walking and talking.

So here’s to books and birthdays and big families and (I can’t believe I am about to type this) Hallmark cards for toddlers!

Greyson Moore 2

P.S. As I was finishing up this post late last week, my wife’s good friend sent us a photo of her little girl, Alleeah (a little more than a year old) who had been “reading to herself” in her crib that morning.  I love people who read before they can read!!!

Alleeah reading


Courage in Oz

Cowardly Lion:  “All right, I’ll go in there for Dorothy. Wicked Witch or no Wicked Witch, guards or no guards, I’ll tear them apart. I may not come out alive, but I’m going in there. There’s only one thing I want you fellows to do.”

Tin Woodsman & Scarecrow:  “What’s that?”

Cowardly Lion:  “Talk me out of it!”



As my wife and I and our friends get older and move into this stage of our children leaving home and living their own lives, I was deeply struck by some words attributed to John Steinbeck.  He wrote, “Perhaps it takes courage to raise children…”

I have tried to think back to our early days of parenting to discover when the need for courage really begins. Was it when the doctor first confirmed that a baby was indeed on the way and we rejoiced while at the same time wondered what it really meant for two people who still enjoyed romantic dinners and quiet nights at the movies and sleeping in on Saturdays? Was it in the long hours watching the pains of labor that finally produced a real live baby who would bear a name only we had chosen for her?

Maybe it was the hard and frustrating nights around our kitchen table when money was tight and bills were voluminous and the future of our young family loomed somewhere out there in the darkness? Could it have come when another’s rising fever forced us to the emergency room on her birthday and we thought we had lost her on the frantic drive there?

Maybe it came when one made a bad decision that ended with discipline and heartbreak and anger and mercy and forgiveness near the midnight hour around our kitchen table? Or maybe it truly began when one left for life on a college campus that she would soon call “home?”

Then again, maybe the courage to parent is always present, lying dormant somewhere within us and just waiting for these and a million other moments to arrive and pull courage from its slumber.  Maybe, just maybe, if courage was required of parents all the time, we would never want to be parents, never want to accept the journey to live and love and lose and win and fail and try and try again.

It all makes me think of our youngest’s favorite book, The Wizard of Oz.  The cowardly lion is so worried about everything that he somehow ends up hiding in the shadows of that forest, a recluse, all alone and going nowhere…so discouraged to have no courage.  And then, only after he stops worrying about not having courage and accepts Dorothy’s invitation to join her and her friends on that now famous journey – then and only then does courage come, just when he needs it most.